ALANEME MARYANN U.
Who is perfect in life? Who has seen a perfect person in this 21st century? I guess the answer should be “NO”. The judgment we all know is assigned to God. He is the only one who has the right to judge. The person you are always talking bad about, “Are you better than him / she? Do you even play your role perfectly?
There is no how everyone will behave or have the same character quality because we all are made different in our own ways. But there is a way to change the Negative side of a person, which is “Correction”. Whereby the person refuses to accept the correction offered, just leave the issue than to judge.
This word” Judgment” has caused a lot of enmities among people. We can’t force one to change attitude but we can suggest or give advice when needed. Doing exactly like this, can never generate problems in life.
As the Adage that says” Remove the log in your eye before looking for who’s own to remove” has clearly explained to us what is expected from us. Be good first before making a step to correct or advice someone because that will be the best way to convince the person.
As we are humans, no one is above mistake in life. For us to be safe and out of troubles, we should only advice and suggest what someone should do rather than judging the person because it might end up in fight.