Ihenagaram Abigail C.
- Who says keeping yourself till your wedding night is not good?
- Who says men hate virgin girls?
- Who said your painful mensuration is caused by being a virgin?
- Who said you wouldn’t get pregnant if you keep your virginity till your wedding night?
- Who said you are local because you are still a virgin?
- Who said dating/marring virgin girls is stress?
- Who said you are still a virgin because of lack of opportunity?
- Who said virginity is nothing/not valued nowadays?
- Who even say virgin girls don’t exist?
- Who is telling you all these?
- Are you among those they have been deceiving?
- Do you still want to keep your virginity?
Who says keeping yourself till your wedding night is not good?
Your virginity is the most precious gift you can ever think of as a wedding gift to your partner. There are blessings attach to it. Forget about what people around you say about virginity and focus on what the word of God says about it. There is always happiness on every one when opening a new sealed parcel.
Who says men hate virgin girls?
Most people will say men don’t like virgin girls, but the truth of the matter is that they always pray to God to give then virgins as wives. Most girls because they have been deceived by the word love, they want you to follow them. Do you think they are happy seeing that you are still a virgin?
Who said your painful mensuration is caused by being a virgin?
What a big lie! Listen menstrual pain is natural. It’s not because you have not had sex before that is why you are having the pain. Most people don’t experience such pains while some do. Please don’t be deceived, most people that were deceived are regretting it because up still tomorrow, they are still experiencing the pains.
Who said you wouldn’t get pregnant if you keep your virginity till your wedding night?
Getting pregnant is not our making but God’s making. You are more assured in getting pregnant than those who were not virgin when they get married. Those that keep themselves till wedding night, are always trusted. Even if they had little problem with conception, that will not be much problem with the husband because he knows he was the one that deflowered her. Now look at it the other way round, if you are having problem with conception and your husband was not your first, do you think he will be comfortable? No. He will not even trust you, instead he will say you have aborted all your children while you were single.
Who said you are local because you are still a virgin?
It is better you are local and you are still a virgin than to be sharp and you are not a virgin. Do they really know what being local is? I doubt. You are educated intelligent, and just because you are a virgin the tag you a local girl. Please tell them thank you and still stand your ground. The end will justify.
Who said marring/dating virgin girls are stress?
Yes they are stressful because they are important. Nothing good comes easily, before digging out gold, you must stress yourself. And even after getting it, it must still undergo some series of procession before you can see its beauty. Virginity is a pride, don’t just give it out on a platter of gold. Given it out on a platter of gold may not be valued.
Who said you are still a virgin because of lack of opportunity?
Wow! What a mindset. Have you forgotten the world we are into? In every day of our lives there are thousands of opportunities if you really want to have sex. Now a day sex is been carried out in schools, offices, in the bush, at homes etc. if you are still saying its lack of opportunity, then I think you are outdated.
Who said virginity is nothing/not valued nowadays?
If virginity is nothing or not valued nowadays, why do people still pray to get married to virgins? Up till tomorrow, virginity is valued and celebrated. All these comments made by people are just to convince you i.e. if you are still a virgin. They want you to be like them. Even people that want to make money are mostly ask to get a virgin for sacrifice and here you are saying virginity is not value.
Who even say virgin girls don’t exist?
Within you, you know they still exist. They fact you have not come in contact with them doesn’t mean they don’t exist. No matter the population of the bad ones in this world, they are still the good ones. Just that they are scarce because they bad has over shadowed them. Don’t let these words make you change your mind, if you can’t beat them please don’t join them.
Who is telling you all this?
Who they hell is feeding people with these lies? Don’t you think you are causing lots of future problems? And you who is still a virgin you have believed in these lies or about believing. My dear hold on to your virginity, it might be hard holding on but please do. Most people are bemoaning their actions now.
Are you among those they have been deceiving?
I know right now some have been deceived and some are about to be deceived. I just wish some people will let others live their lives the way they want is. Instead of brain washing lot more to join them in making the same mistake they have done. What a wicked world!
Do you still want to keep your virginity?
Keeping of virginity is not that easy in this world of ours, but it can be easy if you can keep to the dos and don’t involve. This is about self-determination, not the other way round. Most people have wished to eat their honey in the moon but along the line, they became impatient. Some because of material things, some because they want to feel among, some to prove love etc. if you really want to keep your virginity, don’t let people know you are one. Even when discussing about it in public just keep calm. Don’t even give people the impression that you are one. Above all ask God for help, you can’t do it alone. The spirit might be welling but the flesh is weak.
NB: Stop visiting guys or going for weekend. When going for weekend you are looking for trouble or did you go there to charge your phone? He is not your blood brother, you went for weekend, refuse giving him sex and when going back you expect him to give you transport. When he refuses, you say he is wicked.
When the word virginity is been mentioned, we all refer it to women forgetting men. Please virginity is not for women alone, it’s for all. Have you lost yours already? Don’t feel mad, all you have to do is to stand up there is a room for change. Nobody is perfect.
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